“So whatever it is you want, need or desire or just like to have, you better try to get it now, ’cause this is the only time there is.” — Della Reese
I love that quote and I know I so often used to say to myself – I will have that when…….I will do that when…….does that sounds familiar to you?
Yes, so often we do this and put a time in the future for when we will do something about the challenges we are facing today. I don’t do this anymore though – and you don’t have to either
When I realised exactly what Della says is true and that I only have one life and by waiting until……. before making the most of my life, would very likely mean that I would never achieve what I really want to achieve or have what I really want to have in my life, because that day when…….may never come.
That is when I decided to stop saying I will do, have, be, when…….. and to stop continuously looking into the future and wait for things. I decided to grab life and start living in the here and now and to do that I had to ask myself why I was always waiting until……
That’s when I realised that it was because I was scared to…, I felt guilty for…., I didn’t have the confidence to…….
If that sounds familiar to you then now is the time to remove these feelings and gain ultimate confidence so that you never have to feel scared, guilty, worried, lacking in confidence to do anything ever again….why? Because when you remove those feelings you are able to do, be and have whatever you want in your life and to have it right now instead of when…….
Just imagine, if you only had a little more confidence and could say yes when you really wanted to say yes and no when you really wanted to say no, how different would your life be?
Until next time
Carol
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Hi everyone,
When you find something that you feel will really help you to make those changes in your life, do you simply go for it and book your ticket, buy the book, attend the workshop or do you often find yourself hesitating and procrastinating before making a decision?
If you find yourself procrastinating or hesitating when it comes to investing in your own self development, or making positive changes in your life, – why is that? Is it because you find yourself thinking
•will it work
•how can I justify spending money on myself
•shouldn’t I spend my money on my family and tangible items
•I don’t have time to invest in myself
and other similar thoughts?
So many people believe that it is selfish to spend money on themselves or put their own needs before the needs of others. In reality it is selfish NOT to put yourself first.
When you fly on an aeroplane – what do they tell you about the oxygen masks? Put yours on first and then help everyone else to do the same, because if you help everyone else put on their masks and you don’t have yours on first then you are not going to be able to help for very long before you run out of oxygen and energy and then you will be absolutely no help to other people will you?
It is the same in your life, if you don’t put your own personal needs first, if you are not confident and full of self-esteem, how can you help others to feel the same?
If you spend your days worrying about what others will think of you, how can you really give your best to everyone else?
If you are lacking in energy and enthusiasm for life, how can you live to your full potential and really give the best of yourself to those who love and want to spend time with you?
If this sounds like you, take some time to look at how much more you can give to others, how much more you can help others and how much more fun you will be to be around when you gain ultimate confidence in yourself first and foremost.
Spend some time everyday for you, to do things that make you feel good, things that increase your confidence, things that help you to feel more energetic and full of fun.
When you do this others will benefit much more not less by you spending some time for yourself. Why? Because the happier, more confident and energetic you are, the more you will be able to give to others and the happier they will be too.
Until next time
Carol
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Hi everyone,
So often as you begin to create your professional practice, so may people around you will be telling you that :
- It just isn’t possible to create a successful thriving practice
- That you need a lot of money to build a business
- That you don’t have enough experience to succeed
- that you should stop dreaming and get a “proper job”
And much more – many will be giving you this advice, becaues they love you and mean well and are trying to protect you, others because they have always wanted to create a successful practice but just haven’t been able to and others because they are just too scared to come out of their comfort zones and “go for it”
As you create your visions and dreams and begin to build your practice, spend your days with happy, confidentmotivated and successful people.and you will be amazed at how much more motivation and inspiration you will find that will spur you on to achieve your goals and dreams.
This may sound a little simplistic, but believe me, often we don’t realise until we take the time to think about who we spend our time with and what we do everyday, that we are actually surrounded by a host of people that are forever moaning and complaining about how bad life is. When this happens it drains us of our positive energy and motivation,and the negativity of others rubs off on us too.
Spend the next few days listening to everything people around you and who you spend most of your time with, and see if they are happy, confident and motivated for success, or if they spend most of their time telling you:
•How worried they are about…………….
•How overhelmed they are about………………
•How hard everything is
•How confusing all the information is…………
f the people you are spending your time with spend all their time telling you about all the tried to build a successful practice and failed, that no-one money, that it just isn’t possible to position yourself as an expert in yoru field, that you have to have lots of money to succeed, the fact they are bored, fed-up, feel as though they are stuck in a rut?
If this sounds familiar to you – it is no wonder you feel down and lacking in positive energy or are not confidentat you can succeed and build yourself a professional practice. If you spend your time with people, who seem to always look on the negative side of life and who instantly recognise and talk about the problems they are facing, the bad news they have heard, the fact that they cannot find clients, make money, succeed in their dreams, then you are going to have similar feelings and find yourself drawn into the negative side of life business too.
Find yourself new friends, build strong networks, partner and collaborate with succesful, motivated practitioners, start surrounding yourself with people who are positive, full of motivation and most of all belief in themselves and their futures.
You will be amazed at how much more confidentmotivated and inspired to take powerful actions you will begin to feel almost instantly when you are in the company of happy and confident people.
Please do tell me your views and also what I can do to help you gain ultimate confidence
Carol
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